On my flight from Detroit to Denver, I realized that I needed to be nicer to people. So I decided that I was going to be nice to EVERYONE I came in contact with. I was sitting next to a young man, about 24 years old, who seemed a little down. Here's my chance, I thought. I'll start right now. I leaned over and said, "Hi" and that was all he needed. He talked a lot, I listened. He has been traveling from Albuquerque, NM to Detroit every week for the last 6 months. His young wife has a job in New Mexico - hence the weekly separation. He was extremely nice, and made the flight go much faster than usual.
I then got off the plane and thought that smiling at everyone I saw would be a great idea on my quest for niceness. The first person was easy, she was a Southwest Airlines stewardess, and they are always smiling. I smiled at her and said, "Thank you for all you do." She smiled genuinely and said, "Thank You very much, have a great evening!" This was going to be easy! Well, here are a few things I found out from my first smiling expedition. 1st, if you smile at guys in the bathroom, that's not a good thing. 2nd, if you smile at attractive ladies, don't smile for too long. 3rd, don't smile at anyone 6' 5" 300 lbs or larger that is wearing a Meat Packers shirt. 4th, if you smile and say hi to everyone, most smile back. 5th, Southwest airlines employees are funny, nice, and like to smile a lot. 6th, approximately 1/3 of men in Denver don't wash their hands after they use the restrooms. (OK, I know that really doesn't have to do with anything, but it grosses me out all the same).
Once I arrived in Las Vegas, it was already 3:00 in the morning body time, so I wasn't very talkative, but I still tried to smile at everyone. Just a note: it's interesting how people look at you when you smile at them in the early morning hours. When I arrived at the hotel it was already 1:15 Las Vegas time, and I had a nice chat with the desk manager before going off to bed. I think I can do this! I only have 364 1/2 days left! Being nice is fun.
Friday, December 10, 2010
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